When you love somebody, you love the part of yourself that you’re projecting onto them. And so dear, notice how everything changes knowing that all is love! And acknowledge that this has served you in the past up until now. In this new light of awareness, take notice that everything that has been projected to you to illuminate where you love yourself the most. Even when you get angry over something it is because something triggered a part of you that you love. And loving yourself even more not only heals your scars, it puts your best self forward for the world to see. Do that. 
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