You know the saying, “if you love someone let them go.” It’s not really capturing the essence. Notice how the vibration rises if you love yourself so much so that you set yourself free and let go of your attachments and expectations. And this allows you to love others in such a way that empowers them to fully be free. From here you’ll find that the only way to really love someone is to be free together. And so, love someone in such a way that sets their soul free. 
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