What you resist persists. It’s a truth that just won’t go away! 😉 The question then becomes, how has the resisting served you in the past up until now? We all have something we gain from resisting until it’s time to let go. And you also gain by questioning, are you pushing away from something unwanted or being pulled towards something positive? Are you gaining by proving to others? Or is it something realized within yourself? Your soul knows the difference. All you gotta do is trust your gut. 
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