Sometimes you just gotta be alone. No, I don’t mean in solitude. I mean really alone with all the gritty painful shit that comes up with it. All the demons in your mind. All the emotional scars. So fuck it. Just be alone. Even when it fucking hurts. Especially when it fucking hurts! Fucking sit with it for a while. Listen to your mind. Let all the negative shit come up. Let the surface mind go on and on about how you feel unloved or not good enough. Let your mind tell what s/he thinks the answer is. The most important thing is that you’re giving that pain a voice, and that is exactly what it needs to heal. So sit with it. Be afuckinglone. Heal yourself first. Love yourself through it. Every damn moment! Your people will find you. That’s the beauty of connectedness.
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