When a plant doesn’t bloom, you fix the environment it grows, not the plant, right?
No.
It’s not your job to fix any other living being!
You planted the seed, and you gave it water to grow. Stop trying to control things, whether it be the plant itself or its environment. The plant will grow the the best of its ability in the environment in which it is growing. It will adapt to changes in environment. And she’ll bloom in her own damn time when she’s fucking ready!
Don’t tell people what to do based on your limiting beliefs of control.
Blunt Force Truth: You’re not in control.
You don’t know what’s best for someone else. That’s their purpose to figure it out themdamnselves.
Does not knowing if the plant will bloom make you feel uncomfortable?
Good!
Because this is an invitation for you to let go, not only of the need to fix things or control things, but to let go of the social conditioning you received growing up from people doing that to you. Let go of those old attachments that served you in the past. They have no power over you any more. Let go of the expectations you have of someone growing up the way you did or the way you want them to. Let go of the fear of not knowing what’s next and embrace the true power of not knowing.
Not knowing is not a weakness. It’s liberation from your fears. But your fears are probably afraid of letting go of fears lol.
When you see that not knowing allows you the chance to discover something completely new and wonderful, your fears transmute back to love.
And you discover yourself–not the person you are expected to be–the person you are.
That is when you bloom.
Not when people say you should. Not when they try to fix you, change you, or tell you to change your environment. You bloom in your own damn time.
And that’s why your flowers are so fucking beautiful and completely unique to you!
There will never be another like you–and that power belongs only to you.
Because only you can discover what’s best for your own inner child.
Thank you. It is done it is done. It is done.
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