Blunt Force Truth: If you are focused on whether or not a particular relationship will “work out,” then you are installing attachment to a future outcome instead of being present to that relationship.
What if, instead you could be present to yourself in this moment and how you feel? What do others reflect back to you in this relationship? Notice how you can be completely whole and complete with yourself and take personal responsibility for your feelings, words, and actions. You are fully in charge of yourself and in your power.
Maybe this relationship hasn’t even started yet. Wouldn’t it make more sense then to be focused on what you can give and receive right now than what you’ll get out of it in the future?
Because that’s releasing expectations and attachments. That’s being free and loving others in such a way that allows them to be free. To be empowered. And to be the best version of themselves they can be.
Do that. Together. Whether or not it works out, you will have positively impacted each other’s lives. And that’s a good thing now, isn’t it?
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