Most people don’t seek love.
They find what they perceive love to be.
That means what you attract is based on what your perception of love is.
So how do you define love?
For humans, how we define love comes from our social conditioning — how we’ve been programmed. That means that everyone’s limiting beliefs about love can become part of your programming. If you allow it. Every toxic love story and toxic love song can be equated to how we define what love is — what love means to each of us. If we allow it.
Here’s the thing — that’s not love. Just someone else’s definition of it. Everybody has to filter through this sea of limiting beliefs and decisions and toxic love definitions to make their own meaning of love. Including your own limiting beliefs, decisions, and definition of love.
And you do so within impressionable brain states that do not discern what’s toxic or not.
The subconscious takes in information that matches your vibration. Yes, by raising your vibration, you broaden your meaning of love. Until then, you may be absorbing everyone else’s limited meaning of love…
Until you become aware.
With awareness, other definitions of love look more like attachment to people, things, or outcomes. Other definitions of love look like expectations people place on another instead of acceptance. Other meanings of love might feel more like pain and trauma, but that’s only because the source of that meaning experienced pain and trauma yet haven’t transcended it.
That doesn’t mean you have to…
Because you are free each and every brand new moment to create your own meaning of what love is to you.
It starts within.
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