Have you ever wondered what really makes people successful? Is it just money? Is it their personality? What if it is something everyone is capable of doing? What if being successful means having the ability to spread unconditional love, and by doing so you are able to perform any job successfully?
Here’s the first secret: self forgiveness. You might think highly successful people are really hard on themselves, but there’s a trick to it. You can set lofty goals and work hard to attain them. You can push yourself in the direction of your dreams. But successful people aren’t going to get bogged down in their mistakes from the past. You learn from them and move on! How is it possible to learn lessons and move on? Don’t get caught up with telling yourself “if only I did it this way” or “I should have done something different.” Don’t should on yourself! They key missing ingredient here is self forgiveness. This means you forgive yourself for making mistakes!
There’s a lot we do that we take for granted. We create high expectations for others in our lives. Sometimes these expectations are so high that they are doomed to fail in our eyes! We lift ourselves up by forgiving others when they don’t live up to our expectations, but was it really their fault in the first place? No! They’re going through their own trials and tribulations. If they don’t live up to your expectations, then look within. Take responsibility for your own expectations of others. If it didn’t turn out the way you wanted it to, then forgive yourself. THIS is how you learn and move on.
This carries over into everyday life too. Everyone who had ever evoked an emotional response from you had done this because of your reaction! Everyone is your quantum mirror – what upsets you about others is merely a reflection of those same qualities from within. Sure, we can forgive others for crossing or paths. But that’s only half of the picture. If you want to be truly successful in life, accept your own shortcomings and forgive yourself! This is the path to wholeness, and success will follow!
If you embark upon your own journey – your path too success, you will have to face your self, your fears, and you will be faced with many challenges from those around you. These are all lessons put forth by your higher self in agreement with your pre-approved path too success. As I prepare to release my first book about what happened before the Big Bang, I am going to go through a series of ultimate tests. I am going to share this process with the world just as I am sharing the true nature of the universe with the world. This is the story of my life as the universe. Let the miracles begin!
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Thank you for the excellent info! I have learned that when you keep your focus on the present, you can avoid dwelling on past mistakes. This makes self-forgiveness much easier to accomplish 🙂