Give your fears to me. Together we can transmute them. Are you afraid of being hurt? Who has not ever felt this? And who can honestly say they won’t hurt the ones they love? So do you make promises? Promises lead to expectations, narrowing the range of possibilities, limiting the perception of the outcome. How else can I serve this process to help even more? What if I simply acknowledge, yes, I will hurt you somehow? And I will also heal the pain. I will find your values that I inadvertently triggered. I will learn to serve these values for the highest and best good. That is the gift we all get from our pain–the lesson. And that’s good to know, isn’t it?