Loving yourself is great. Everyone could use even more self-love. But not if it’s to compensate for not having love. You don’t want to keep the frequency of lack with you. So let go of the need to love yourself for lack of love from another.
Simply love.
Let go of the need to receive validation from anyone. From everyone. Let go of the need for feelings to be reciprocated if it’s just validating yours.
Don’t evaluate your lovability based on external validation. RTA
Notice how you are love. Simply that. Strip away the barriers.
You see, things like the illusion of lack and the need for validation are very important signs. They’re picking up on incongruence within your core programming and bringing that up to show you. That’s why they’re called signs.
So what do you do about that? Simply, you align. Align with your highest and best self. Align with your core beliefs and desires. Align with the love that is the very core of your being. Then you’re ready to shed the layers and let go of anything that no longer serves you.
Because with congruence, you always actualize the highest intent from infinite possibilities.
Yes, always.
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