Ever notice how people say one thing and do another? Does it bother you? You’re not alone…
But here’s what might change your reaction: People are showing you that they have an incongruence in their core values. That means they are getting negative results with respect to a positive value. And they’re doing the best they can with that.
This is why it’s important to have compassion.
Regardless of what’s being said and done.
Compassion will help you to help them to see the highest intent of their positive value.
It’s just a subconscious response, after all. Most are unaware of that behavior, because the value underlies the beliefs that affect a person’s behaviors. They might already feel bad, and further criticism might make them feel worse.
Understanding will bridge the gap between words and actions. Compassion will help them become even more aware. Love will help them heal their incongruence and stimulate their value positively.
And with congruence, you are unstoppable!
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