The concept of one view being right and the other wrong is the nature of duality. It’s the mind’s trick to limit what you see based on what fits your programming.
Beyond that is a sea of infinite possibilities.
Because when you get past your definitions of ‘right’ and ‘wrong,’ you get to the good stuff within. Your values. Everybody has them, and what each person’s values mean to them is just as perfect for them as it is unique to them.
Values alter your beliefs, which shape your behaviors. It works automatically in the subconscious without you even needing to be aware. Just like breathing. And you have the choice to be consciously aware. Just like breathing.
Now, duality may still show up in your values, meaning you have a positive or negative type of value. Think of what you want vs what you don’t want. And that’s what attracts certain lessons for you.
The hack to transcend duality and move toward positive values is simple: Congruence.
Congruence is an alignment with your mind, body, and higher self. It shows up in how your actions match your words and even your inner dialog.
When you act on what you stand for, that’s congruence. When your value is what you don’t want, that’s a sure sign of incongruence and the reason why you haven’t gotten the desired results up until now.
So when you can embody congruence within yourself, you gain a better understanding on others’ values. You see beyond the polarization that appears to be separating us, seeing the connection instead.
And you find better ways to speak into someone’s framed perception of reality by understanding their frame better. Do that.
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