People will talk a lot, but it ain’t about you. Even if you think they’re talking bout you it ain’t about you.
First, it’s about your perception of what they say. Second, what they say is about their perception.
They may have a different perception of you and that’s ok. Because we all have our own perception filters and biases. Everybody can only take in just enough data from infinite possibilities to fit their already preconceived version of reality. RTA
In other words, people see what they want to see. So let em say what they wanna say.
And remember it ain’t about you. It’s about the version of you that they created in their head. And that ain’t your responsibility.
=D