When dealing with situations and people, there are two important questions to ask: Is it worth your energy? And is it worth your energy?
You don’t have to expend your energy to keep an argument going. You don’t have to spend your energy just to make someone else happy. You just don’t have to…
Your energy is yours.
You get to decide what to do with your energy.
That’s why it’s called your energy.
With some people, you expend your energy. Yet with some, your energy is invested. So wouldn’t it make more sense to invest your energy in such a way that it grows with someone and the universe gives you even more in return?
Confession time: I lost my fight. I have nothing left to spend in the form of arguments, gossip, and drama. In the past, these interactions only served to drain my energy. And that’s manifested physically as chronic fatigue and pain.
Here’s why that happened: So I could see that I chose to expend my energy. I chose.
And that led to to this breakthrough: In the past, I allowed myself to be used so I could have friends. My limiting belief was that people didn’t like me. So I found other ways to be “liked.” In doing so, I attracted people in my life that had different values in friendships and relationships than I did. Narcissists. Manipulators. Controllers. Because they’re takers and I was giving energy away. It was the perfect match.
That’s why I blame no one. Not even myself. We were all doing what we subconsciously conditioned ourselves to do. Nobody’s toxic. We just followed our own programming.
And if it was that easy to attract perfect partners for my energy back then, just imagine how easy it is now to start accepting even more wholesome friendships. Breakthrough#2: The universe was sending them all along. All I needed to do was open up to them even more.
I AM open.
I AM investing wisely.
I AM grateful.
Thank you, universe.
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