We are all in a process of becoming ourselves. In doing so we shed the layers that we had put on in the past–from our blocks, limiting beliefs, and social conditioning–to get to the core of our essence. That’s the real you. So really, you’re not changing yourself by working on yourself. You’re showing up as yourself! It’s up to others to either recognize you as you are and love you, or realize that they’ve projected their image of who they thought you were onto you. And you just shed that. So they think you’ve changed just because your light is shining through. That’s not your problem–it’s theirs. Keep shining! I love you in this light!
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