Blunt Force Truth: Your capacity to love someone equals your ability to leave them the fuck alone. Because you accept them as they are and give them the support and freedom to be exactly who they want to be! You might feel needy–or you can know exactly what you need–and that tells you what you’re willing to receive. If what you’re willing to receive is different from what you are able to give, then don’t blame the other for not giving or receiving. You gotta illuminate and eliminate your blocks. And they will too, in their own time, as their awareness grows. Find balance within yourself first, and you’ll see balance in your life. So love yourself first. Then you’ll see that you can be there for someone unconditionally and still create the space they need for their healing and growth. That means you’ll be there for them exactly when they need you. Do that.
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