Rather than just saying that things happen for a reason or “it is what it is,” notice how you can raise the vibration of your language, changing the very meaning and opening up a whole new world of possibilities. What if instead you said “everything happens on purpose?” How does this change things for you in this brand new moment? It may not leave things anymore to some reason predetermined by who-knows-what. This puts destiny in your hands! And being on purpose can mean both deliberate and with a goal, can’t it? And you, my friend, are here on purpose.
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