Blunt Force Truth: People who don’t even know you are gonna talk shit on you. They could be telling someone what they think the person wants to hear. They could be projecting their own insecurities and fear. And here’s the thing: None of this has anything to do with you. Let them say whatever the fuck they’re gonna say about you. Because it’s on them if they wanna judge based on the little they know or what they’re told about you. It’s on them if they’re gonna project their own past onto your present situation. And I know, it can hurt when people talk shit on you, even when it’s their own projection based upon their own limited reality. But it doesn’t have to hurt. Just realize their behavior is merely their social conditioning. If someone complains, it’s natural to take their side and try to make them feel better. To reinforce their beliefs. Until you wake up. This conditioned behavior leads to an unaware state people get themselves into. In other words, they don’t know who they’re hurting. So forgive them, for they are not yet aware. And as for you dear ones, simply ask if this honors your soul. Does it honor your growth? Does it honor your evolution? Does it honor your soul’s freedom to shine? Not everyone will. Stay with the ones who do. And treat the ones who don’t with kindness, compassion, and forgiveness, because that’s what they need the most.
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