Love without expectation. Not because it’s easy or you won’t get hurt. Neither will be true. It takes effort to reflect and recognize in yourself attachments that you are actively letting go of in this process. And yes, there’s research showing that people are happier with lowered expectations, but that’s not really getting to the core of it all. It’s not about lowering your expectations to avoid disappointment. Because when you do that, you’re focusing your subconscious mind on disappointment. Without judgment, your mind will seek to find just that. This is about the abolishment of the very framework of internal programming surrounding expectation. Expectation can lead to disappointment, and that can lead to sadness, even suffering. Expectation can also lead to self-validation when expectations are met. It’s not about that. It’s an abolishment of self in a sense of becoming selfless. And an expansion of self in that you’re allowing what’s best for others to naturally transpire. You’re becoming a sense of greater good, expanding the sense of self into your relationships and communities. But is this truly aligned with your desires? We all naturally want things from others, and that leads to expectations. To go deep, we must question our desires, finding the highest intent, and let go. We surrender into divine love as we let go, the very primordial soup of universal life. We release any and all attachments. It only hurts when we try to hold on. When we let go, we allow what’s best to happen naturally–not always what is wanted. But when you question the highest intent of your desires, what if you can get that and even more divine love through this process of letting go? That’s where the breakthroughs happen. In letting go. And that’s why we learn to love without expectation–to let go of attachments and surrender into divine love. Thank you. It is done. It is done. It is done.
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