Blunt Force Truth: You don’t always have to be a people pleaser.
People that like you are gonna like you anyway for saying no.
And respect you even more.
So you don’t have to explain yourself. Your people will accept you as you are. If they don’t, maybe they’re not your people. Or maybe it’s part of their path to learn.
So say no to the things that don’t resonate.
Say yes to the things that do resonate.
Take care of yourself first. Always take care of yourself. That’s how you shine your light so luminous that your brightness spreads through all, supporting and loving the ones around you through what they’re going through.
Just trust your own gut. Let your intuition guide you.
You’ll just know by the feels is something is a yes or a no. The right people will still be around, because they enjoy your light, everything else is secondary. That’s why it’s ok to say no.
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