Blunt Force Truth: If you’re not aware yet, you’ll be projecting your subconscious fears, traumas, and pain on every partner you’re with.

You’ll be attracting the same lessons manifested as the same personalities in different people.

You’ll see the past repeat.

And every time–yes every time–you’ll end up hurting those in your life, simply because you hurt.

“Hurt people hurt people.”

There is a better way.

So check yourself before you wreck someone else.

At the very moment you begin to work on yourself and become aware of your own patterns, you take personal responsibility for your own self.

Your self-love.

Your self-healing.

Your self-sufficiency.

You and only you can liberate yourself.

Do that. Because once you stop projecting, you start seeing the universe reflecting through you. You see yourself, not as a victim of circumstance, but as someone powerful enough to step out of old frames of reference to see things in an all new light.

You see that everything has happened for you to discover your own love for yourself.

And that changes how you respond. Because seeing this in yourself allows you to see it in others, even when they’re hurtful. Especially when they’re hurtful!

You see them reliving their trauma, and that alone gives you more compassion. And your ever-increasing self-love lights the way for every beautiful soul to liberate themselves from their own bondage as well.

Only in loving yourself do you reach the fullest expression of love with which to share with a partner. And the world. So let that inner child out.

Let yourself break down.

Then break through.

And break the fuck out.

It’s time to fully express every single emotion you’ve had to bottle up or lock away because you were too outspoken, too emotional, or too crazy.

Be that crazy-ass child that no one can control.

Because nobody was put here on Earth to control you.

Remember that–nobody.

And that is your secret power.

Thank you. It is done. It is done. It is done.

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