Omniversal Law: You must first love yourself if you wish to love another.

Because you can’t love from a place of incompleteness. You can’t fill a void with someone. You can’t be completed by someone. You cannot possess another person. To do so is to limit them. To hold them back from fully loving themselves and in turn, from loving you.

You can’t love anybody partially or conditionally. You can’t shelter anyone or hold them down. You can’t be dependent or make someone dependent on you. Attachment is not love!

Blunt Force Truth: If you’ve ever loved someone and got hurt, then it was not coming from a state of loving yourself wholly. Instead, people project their past. They project insecurities. They project fear, worry, and jealousy. That’s not love!

Anything less than absolute freedom isn’t quite love then, isn’t it?

Love people in such a way that makes them free! Free to express themselves. Free to live the life they choose. Free to love themselves. And free to love you in the way that is the best expression of their own self-love.

Because love shouldn’t hold anybody back. Love frees you to choose to be with the one you love every single brand new moment!

And when you do love yourself wholly, does that mean that you don’t get negative thought patterns? No, you still do–you just have more resources to listen to it. To sit with it and give it a voice. You look at it from different perspectives. A new frame of reference allows you to witness the mind chatter without attachment to it.

You release the emotional charge.

Then the lesson reveals itself.

When you listen to whatever it is your mind wants to bring up, it’s doing so because the subconscious knows you’re ready for it. So don’t push it down! Let it flow.

The driving force of the lessons–the even deeper meaning–reveals your core values. Your virtues. The stuff that has attracted you to everything that had to happen for you to be right here right now! This is your chance to evaluate what you attracted up until now and change what you’re attracting right now.

This is the paradox we’re in:

We have all the tools built-in. But if you don’t know it yet, you’ll start believing the surface mind chatter.

People go around, thinking their past defines them today. They carry emotions from past events, holding onto them like it’s their fucking fortune. It’s not.

You can let go of the emotional charge from moment-to-moment. You’re supposed to let go every moment. Instead, we’re adding more force to the emotions every single brand new moment we hold on, causing ripples in the space-time continuum. That’s not good…

And it’s easy to let go.

It’s a great way to release any gravity that holds you down. And it’s simple. You forgive. Forgive others. Forgive yourself. Surrender to the love that you are. Take the Nestea plunge into the pool of infinite knowledge. Exude gratitude as you just soak in all the higher knowledge that transcends time, space, and all your human “problems.”

Knowledge transmutes pain and suffering. Know that when you embrace your vulnerability, you become something much bigger than yourself. See yourself as pure divine love. Because that IS what you are!

The cosmos itself is the driving force of attraction that makes all things possible. It makes you and I possible! Everything in the universe attracts. That’s pure universal love, baby! It’s what every grain of your existence is. Every single bit if your presence.

You are love.

So why not act like it? Can’t hurt. You might like it.

Knowing you are love makes it easy to love yourself. That’s when you’ll see the same love in others.

Do that. You’ve just upgraded your core values, now changed what you attract for good!

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