Whether it’s racism, sexism, or any other kind of hate, there is a common thread. Hate is hate. And it can only be present when there’s an absence of love in one’s heart. A lack of loving oneself. And here’s the one thing that every single person with hate shares in common: Choice. Simply, hate …
Blunt Force Truth: Healing yourself is not about changing yourself. Healing is accepting yourself and your flaws, shortcomings, and everything you’re critical of. Self healing is about self acceptance. Do that and everything else falls into place. That doesn’t come easy (unless it does). Maybe something to heal could be about not being loved in …
Blunt Force Truth: Telling someone who experiences social anxiety to “just go talk to her (or him)” is about the same thing as telling someone experiencing depression to just “not be sad.” It’s like telling someone grieving the death of a loved one to “just get over it.” Or telling a narcissist to be selfless …
Imagine what loving yourself can do for you. It’s not just about how you see yourself. It’s not just about your self-confidence. Loving yourself has everything to do with how you treat others lovingly. Loving yourself is fully embracing you–all of you. And accepting yourself and opening up to your deepest vulnerabilities, being honest with …
When you look at yourself in the mirror, what do you see? Do you see your imperfections? Do you judge or become critical of yourself? Well, you can’t say critical of without saying love! When you step into loving yourself wholly and completely, you illuminate those areas that you’re critical of. And then you realize …
People often ask if there’s anything that can go faster then the speed of light. It is the fastest speed barrier known to humanity. But there are things faster than light. And you’re already using them… You might think space is nothingness or void. What it really is–is everything. It is the medium which conducts …
When you’re highly empathic, you’re going to experience a lot of lower vibrational feelings from your surroundings. You’re going to feel hate from those around you. You’re going to feel the anger in your environment. You’re going to feel the fear that controls and brainwashes almost everyone you interact with. That’s why it’s important to …
Sometimes the strongest people you know are the ones enduring the most pain. They’re the ones going through their own internal struggles, and in doing so, becoming even stronger. They’re the ones facing chronic pain every single day. They’re the ones who have been hurt and cast away by others, only to go within to …
You might look out into this world and see how the vibration is lowered through all of the hate, anger, racism, bigotry, intolerance, fear mongering, lies, control, and manipulation, even lack of empathy. Just to name a few. And what’s not very well known is that these aren’t the problem. There is a common thread. …
Enlightenment is a smile. Enlightenment is simply knowing that you can be happy even in the midst of suffering. Even in the midst of chaos. Because only you can possess your power to respond to life’s situations positively. And you already know that negativity is the only thing that takes your power away. You choose. …
If you’ve ever been hurt in a relationship, and I’m sure at some time we all have, then know this. It was only when your expectations were not meet that the hurt occurred. The pain you felt was from the breaking of your attachments. And none of that means it’s your fault. Just your responsibility …
When I stopped looking for relationships, I started finding connections. When I stopped wanting to be loved, I loved myself even more. When I stopped seeking validation, I found wholeness and completeness in myself. Nothing changed except for my perception. And then everything changed. Because that’s just how the universe works! What’s different now is …
Here’s a little piece of information to put it all in perspective: We are all just learning this together. We’re all just figuring things out. You might have thought, in the past, that adults had everything all figured out already. It is only through adulting that we find out for each and every one of …
Lucky are those who love. That doesn’t just mean those who are in love–it means those who have the capacity to love. To love unconditionally. To love their lessons. To love themselves wholly and completely, allowing even greater love to spring forth from their pure potential energy and sharing that with the world regardless of …
Blunt Force Truth: You’ll never be rich if you keep hating on those who are. You won’t find success by diminishing others’ successes. You can’t be free by limiting someone else’s freedom. You won’t be loved by hating on anyone else. See the pattern? Good, because that’s what you’re holding yourself to. And know this: …
I’m not here to start the revolution.. I AM here to finish it! It was conflict that started the revolution. It was division in the beginning created by the illusion of separation. There were those who took advantage of others, polarizing their viewpoints to fit them into categories and make them easier to control. Then …
Life isn’t all just being in the positive about everything. I’d be lying if I told you that I’m happy all the time. I’d also be lying if I said I’m depressed all the time. Or angry, sad, or afraid. They all come. And they all pass. It’s part of the journey. We’re just riding …
Forgive yourself for ever thinking it was your fault. Any of it. All of it! Forgive yourself for pretending to play along out of guilt, fear, or shame. Forgive yourself for acting like you believed the lies and manipulation. Maybe it was an agreement you made in the past to store the emotions just because …
Blunt Force Truth: Sometimes people are faced with a love so great–a love so magnanimous–that they become afraid, simply because they haven’t experienced love so strong before and don’t know what to do. People get caught up in the ‘how’ sometimes and become overwhelmed not knowing how to accept and receive or how to move …
Blunt Force Truth: The problem is that you think it’s the other person. So the solution then becomes you. You must first work on yourself so you can present the best version of you. Because if you don’t, you’re only going to get reflected back to you what you are embodying. That can be good …